Oblate Life
Living the Spirit of the Rule
The only obligation on Benedictine Oblates of Westminster Abbey is to live the spirit of the Rule of St Benedict in their own state of life.
Each Oblate will find his own mix of spiritual practices and reading to do this. Two books which have been found helpful to our Oblates are Esther de Waal, Seeking God, and Wil Derkse, The Rule of Benedict for Beginners. There are many other resources available, as a web search will show.
However, as liturgical prayer is so important a part of Benedictine life, we do recommend that the Oblate find some way to integrate at least a part of the official prayer of the Church into his or her daily routine. For most, this will be from the Liturgy of the Hours, which can be found in various forms both in print and online.
Oblates who are not too far away come to the Oblate Meetings at the Abbey. These take place on the third Sunday of every month except July and August, at 3:00pm. One of the monks gives a talk on some spiritual or ecclesial topic. Afterwards there are refreshments followed by Vespers at 4:30.
There is also an annual retreat for the Oblates, held at the Abbey usually in June. It goes from a Friday evening to the Sunday afternoon. Dates can be found on the Abbey website or in the Oblate Newsletter.
Events
| Date | Presenter | Topic |
| Sept 21, 2025 | P. Leo | Introduction: Devotion and Liturgy: The Benedictine Approach |
| Oct 19 | P. Matthew | The Heart in Scripture and Tradition: The Biblical Heart: Center of Person and Love |
| Nov 16 | P. Prior | Gestures and Words of Love: Christ’s Humanity Revealed in His Heart |
| Dec 21 | P. Anthony | The Incarnate Heart: Christmas: The Human Heart of Jesus |
| Jan 18, 2026 | P. Joseph | Here Is the Heart That Loved So Much: Through the Heart of Christ to the Father |
| Feb 15 | P. Caesarius | The Pierced Side and Living Water: Entering the Heart through His Wounds |
| Mar 15 | Br. Maximus | Love That Gives to Drink: Eucharist and the Sacred Heart; Consolation of the Heart of Christ |
| Apr 19 | Br. Joseph | Love for Love: Responding to Christ’s Love with Our Own |
| May 17 | Fra. Athanasius | The Heart of Mary and the Heart of Jesus: Marian Dimension of the Sacred Heart |
| June 12-14Retreat |
TBD | |
| June 14 | Fr. Abbot | Conference |
